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Today I feel like I need to write about parenting because these days, kids are just getting out of control. I mean WAY out of control and wackos; no manner. Moreover, people these days tend to blame other more than they used to do back in the days. Without further ado, lets get down to business.

It is very important for parents to raise their children properly. If you are not a good role model for them to begin with by cursing in front of them, then there is no surprise when your offsprings have a shrewd tongue. That whole process of raising kid starts from the very beginning, as soon as the kid is born. When the parents don't know any manner, and on top of that have a shrewd tongue, then there is no surprise to see that their kids cursing in every sentence they speak, or calling names to people at their will. When others belittle you for your kids' actions, then you will scold your kids. But lets take a step back and look at the whole situation again before you unleash your anger to your kids and blame them! Lets see who really is at fault here, you or your kids! Kids act the way they do because you as parents failed to put them on the right track and teach them the proper manner, so isn't that in a way that is your fault for being belittled?

This is exactly the example of what I was blogging. It all happened in a facebook game. I don't know who it is, but that person bought my pet and renamed it. The name says something like this: "Thank Me! You belonged to me instead of idiot bastard!" And what come across my mind then was BAD PARENTING! That simply show how low-life that kid is and same image will be reflected onto his/her parents. All in all, it all boiled down to lack of parenting. If his/her parents were to taught some manner into him/her then i am sure such cases can be prevented. Calling someone bastard in public forum for no obvious reason is unjustifiable, but not unpreventable! It is also quite sad to see how kids these days don't give a second thought about how their actions will affect their parents.

So from the example above just think twice before you do something now boys and girls.